The Power of Passing It On – Step 12

By: Sunday Kapesi

October 2, 2024

The most important part of recovery is to pass the message on.
Maurice Gibb

I could not agree more! Step 12 of the 12-step recovery process is about SERVICE—carrying the message of HOPE & HEALING to others. While those of us in recovery understand the importance of this step, I want to speak to a broader audience. I’m addressing not just addicts & alcoholics, but also functional addicts, non-addicts, caregivers, & anyone who interacts with people struggling with addiction or mental health. This message is for you.

What Is the 12-Step Recovery Process?

Founded in 1935 by Bill Wilson & Dr. Bob Smith, the 12-step recovery program became the foundation of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). Its principles offer a roadmap to recovery, focusing on SELF-AWARENESS, ACCOUNTABILITY, and SPIRITUALITY. Step 12—the final step—is a COMMITMENT TO SERVICE: helping others find the light, as we have.

It’s not just for the recovering addict, but is essential for their continued sobriety. Studies show that 75% of AA members report maintaining sobriety after their first year, demonstrating the program’s effectiveness (Alcoholics Anonymous World Services).

Mwangaza Wa Sunday’s Mission: Reaching the Unreached

Mwangaza wa Sunday is my vehicle for practicing step 12. I was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Depression, Insomnia, Anxiety, and required Grief counselling during my time in rehab, aged 40. Prior to rehab, I had gone about my life undiagnosed of any mental illness, and during a particularly difficult phase in my life, addiction crept in, and chaos followed me soon thereafter. I know firsthand the daily struggles of a functioning addict and the challenges of a recovering addict.

I’m on a mission to educate, inform, and bring awareness to those who may not have access to professional support, mental health services, or recovery programs like I do. You don’t need to be in AA to understand this: Addiction & Mental health impacts everyone. Whether you’re caring for an addict or simply think alcoholism isn’t relevant to you, you need to understand what we go through every day of our recovery journey. Don’t be mistaken, there is no destination.

I know of a recovering addict aged 105, who has been attending AA for the last 50+ years. He is a man of service and humility. He is my hero, so take it from him, both AA and helping others go hand in hand with maintaining your sobriety. Everyone who cares for you should encourage you to serve others and continue to heal in the process.